@jpump: I agree with some of what mom2two has said, pretty similar to my experience except I have not had to downplay anything. I'm in a really small big 4 office so the office politics are probably very different than they would be at a bigger office. Also a lot of the seniors and managers had just quit before I started so at this point it's mostly staff, the seniors and managers that did stay are really cool so no problems there. We'll see what happens after promotion day if any of the promoted staff have a change of attitude. I won't be promoted this year, I just started in January.
I have had to go to a lot of happy hours that I would prefer not to go just because I'm not really into drinking or hanging out at the bars anymore. I do get a little frustrated by all the events. I feel like we work together and spend enough time together that I would rather get some time off to go home and be with my family. But I suck it up and go to most of it because it would look bad if I didn't.
My prior experience was a good talking point during my interviews. The partner I interviewed with did straight up ask me if I thought I would be bothered by working with younger people, having my senior or manager be younger than me. I told him I wouldn't be and actually talked about the time I managed people older than me. I'm really not bothered by it. If they know what they are doing, that's all that matters. I forget sometimes that these people are so much younger than me…until we start talking about personal lives and they are all about dating & going out & I'm all about my family and staying home lol.
Honestly, the most frustrating thing about this has been the hours. I knew it would be going in. Right now is a pretty miserable time for me because I'm working overtime there (summer is not the end of busy season for me) and studying for the cpa exam so I have almost no free time and very little family time. I'm hoping that I will be happier when I'm finished with this exam, at least then when I get off at 7 or 8 I won't have to go home and study for 2-3 more hours.
So I'm on the fence as to whether I'll stay long term. I'm definitely staying as long as it takes to make this be worth it. The whole point was to learn a lot and get qualifications and credentials to move to the next level. I am not taking another staff position when I leave here. But I go back and forth between wanting to get out as soon as I possibly can (because of the hours) and wanting to stay because I truly do like the work environment and the people I'm with. Coming from industry I did used to get bored at work a lot. I have never been bored here so I like that. I don't know. Not really a decision I have to make right now.
Is it worth it? I really hope so. I guess I won't really know until I've been here longer and I see how things will pan out as far as exit opportunities or the opportunities with the firm if I end up staying.
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