Why do you really want a manager title at a big 4? What will you get in the future if you stay vs. if you go? You say you want to stay in the tax field, so it's not like audit people that will benefit from jumping straight into a Controller position or similar high-paying position in the future, right? I may not understand the benefits of a tax person transitioning from a big 4, but I think you just need to evaluate where you see yourself in 3-5 years. Is the plan to make it to manager and look for a higher-paying position elsewhere? Do you think that if you stay and make it to manager, and then make the switch, you will be getting paid significantly more than the 20K increase you would be getting now if you switch?
I left the Big 4 as a “Senior” to a smaller firm, but just like you, they had not given me the title due to CPA. I realized if I had not gotten my CPA in the first 2 years at big 4, I was not going to get it while still working there. The longer you stay the more responsibilities, the harder it gets to make time to study. Not to mention the job is sometimes comparable to slavery when the hours are so grueling and you have no say as to when you can clock out!
To make my decision I just set my priorities straight and honestly asked myself if I wanted those “promised benefits” of leaving as a manager and if it was even worth all the stress. My answer? Family was #1 to me and there was no point in wasting my life away being miserable (and having no time for my family) in a firm that just saw me as a number. Besides, I never pictured myself working in private, so public accounting was gonna be it for a while. 2 years later, I am working in an even smaller firm with awesome work life balance and I plan on staying here for the long-run, until I start my own company of course π
So ask yourself the same questions and decide what is best for you. Best of luck!
BEC: 73, 81
AUD: 85
FAR: 71, 77
REG: 74, 75...finally DONE! π
*This is my 2nd attempt at the CPA exam. For all of you who have failed this exam many times, given up on it, or taken a break like me, remember that it is still possible to finish what you started...failure is the opportunity to begin again more intelligently π