[futuremdcpa]

After 2 long years.. she has broken up with me saying she’s unsure if she wants anything more serious with me (as in marriage), and that we argue a bit too much (which she has admitted its both of our faults). This couldn’t come at a worse time… I can’t concentrate on FAR. All I did today was watch a 3 hr lecture. Thats it. We are both accounting grads, and going for the CPA. She started work already a month ago (thats when our problems started). She would be at the metro around 10pm, and I would pick her up and take her home, where I would hang out with her and her family for an hour or so. She would be so exhausted that we would spend very little time together (which I am okay with). But she would snap at any little thing…

We went through everything together.. junior/senior year together, graduation, interviews, and a study abroad trip. life sucks. Thought I was going to marry this girl.. I guess not.

sorry for the off topic, just needed somewhere to vent.

REG: PASS || BEC: PASS || AUD: PASS || F: SCORE PENDING..

[Anonymous]

I know you don't want to hear this or believe it, because I had exactly the same thing happen to me (REG instead of FAR, but the point still stands…), but it's going to get better. One of the things that has really helped me is to make time for friends you forgot about during those two years. You'd be surprised at how understanding they are and how willing they are to take you back. Take off and do something unplanned, then realize how nice it is not to have someone on your ass about where you are and when you'll be back. Push that test back if you can't concentrate. It'll get better, and you'll be a much better man for it in the end. Chin up, sir!

[futuremdcpa]

@DrewFlu33 – Thank you! I started to text some friends.. and they really understand and they tell me the same stuff as people on here.. and its helpful to have people to talk too and vent too.. Im trying to keep focus on FAR.. Its very hard im not going to lie. I feel like I am breaking down peice by peice the more that time passes. She was never the type to be on my ass about anything. She just couldn't handle the relationship while her job demands all these hours from her (7 days a week, 14hrs a day until mid-oct). I don't blame her, but if the roles were flipped I would of never broken up with her over that. I would of explained that she might not be seeing me so much, but im sure she would of understood.. But I just cant wrap my head around why she couldn't do the same.. It just sucks, and im hurting really badly.. I try to act like nothing happened on the outside, and that im okay.. but deep down.. im depressed, and feel like i've lost something very important to me..

REG: PASS || BEC: PASS || AUD: PASS || F: SCORE PENDING..

[Anonymous]

If the friends aren't target worthy, consider the Mom! 😀 It's not about pleasure, it's about revenge! 😀

You have it bad my friend…..just chill. How about this, write on a piece of paper ‘I give myself permission not to care about this until I finish this exam'. Then by the time you finish this exam she won't matter.

She's not the end all, be all of women.

[futuremdcpa]

I know what your saying.. I really get it.. Trust me! I tell friends the same advice Im getting from here all the time.. Its just easier to say it and know you have to do it then actually doing it! It seems like the impossible..

See the only problem is that I do have it bad.. and it sucks. Ive been in love since day 1 of seeing her. I've dated so many girls, been with so many.. been around the block a few times if you wanna say that.. but never met a girl like her. It just blows!!!!!

REG: PASS || BEC: PASS || AUD: PASS || F: SCORE PENDING..

[FLCPA77]

Personally I think you need to get out of town for a week and visit friends in other cities to give yourself a change of scenario. You obviously need to get her off your mind and studying for the CPA exam is not the solution. You should look at her breaking up with you as a golden opportunity to be free for a while. You don't have to go out and be a legendary cocksman, but go out and enjoy single life for a while.

FAR - 90
AUD - 82
REG - 93
BEC - 80

[futuremdcpa]

@FLCPA77 – I wish I could get out of town or something like that. If I wasn't starting work in 1 month, and had a time crunch for FAR (last section), I would of went to Europe and stayed there for the 3-4 week I have off. I guess I just need to focus on the CPA…

Every girl that I date is always an upgrade from the previous one. This has been true for every girl I've dated. So I am guessing once I pass the CPA (huge weight off my shoulder), I will meet some other girls who are a better match for me, who will make me forget about this one.

Thanks for your feedback 🙂 this thread has helped me in more ways then anyone will understand.

REG: PASS || BEC: PASS || AUD: PASS || F: SCORE PENDING..

[goodluck2everyone2]

girls are annoying dude. Let them do the chasing and worrying and you live your life oblivious to all their bs. Once girls notice that you are immune to their charms, they get attracted to you. This is how contemporary dating works.

cool story bro

[futuremdcpa]

@goodluck2everyone2 – Your right. I am going to just focus on this exam. I needed a few days to take it all in.. But I realized shes just a stepping stone to something bigger.. I will one day meet my one! For now.. FAR is my gf!

Thank you everyone. I think this board has been probably the best place for me these last few days.. THANK YOU!!

REG: PASS || BEC: PASS || AUD: PASS || F: SCORE PENDING..

[Kru]

futuremdcpa – This subject on this forum will make your situation even worse when you have so many people (including myself) telling different things. It can be distracting and somehow, you may feel like refreshing this page over and over whilst you want to be focused on more important things in life at this time.

For now, your goal (FAR) must precede your desire (everyone's opinion on your love situations.. ). Once you become a CPA, you will be welcomed more by professional girls and spontaneity will hit its' new levels.

AUD - 82p
FAR - 69, 72, 75p
BEC - 09/2012
REG - 10 or 11/2012

Using CPAExcel, Gleim for SIMs, and Red Bull

[futuremdcpa]

@Kru – Right on point.. Earlier today I was refreshing this page every 5 minutes it seemed! I needed to vent, and hear peoples perspectives.. and needed some advice.. I think as the days are going by, we talk less and less.. and today only once in the morning with a text. Tomorrow nothing.

I just needed a bit of renforcement. Thanks for the advice! Instead of 2 days on F2, I ended up spending 5days. I should of been on F4 tomorrow. Its okay. I will finish F2 tomorrow, and start F3 lecture!

Once I pass the CPA exams, I will meet the girl of my dreams down the road!

REG: PASS || BEC: PASS || AUD: PASS || F: SCORE PENDING..

[jenuno01]

You need to ignore her bro. Nothing will drive her more crazy than not hearing from you. Stay strong. Be stubborn. She broke up with you, now let her suffer. Don't text her at all. Repeat after me: “idgaf, idgaf, idgaf!!!” feel better?

Class of 2012

[Minimorty]

IDGAF!!!!!!

[futuremdcpa]

Idgaf!!!!! Haha I put her name as “DON'T CALL DONT TEXT” in my contacts list! I don't really care if she goes crazy or not. There's always better. I wish her nothing but the best.. I'm gonna pass FAR!!!

IDGAF!!!!!!!!!!!!! Ima future CPAyyyyy!!

REG: PASS || BEC: PASS || AUD: PASS || F: SCORE PENDING..

[Mrs 300]

I had to log in so that I could post in response to Jenuno. He is dead on. You are getting most of your advice from men and here's a woman's perspective: IGNORE HER. Believe me, after a couple of days go by when you don't contact her, she's going to start to wonder what's going on. She WILL second guess herself. She will go nuts. If she texts you or contacts you, don't respond for 24 hours. If you are always there, she'll know that you are always there. You can't let her think that or it'll just be easy on her.

And I also like what Kru said. Focus all of your energy on FAR. I know that's easier said than done. A break up can completely consume you. Stay strong and stay focused. If you want to give yourself a little bit of time every day to mope and think about her, then do it. But then that's it. Pick yourself up and move on for the day.

Good luck, my A71 friend!

REG - 80 (Becker only)
BEC - 76 (Becker only)
AUD - 71, 76 (Becker only)
FAR - 65, 74, 81! (Becker, Wiley Test Bank, Ninja notes & Audio)

CPA Class of 2012 🙂

[futuremdcpa]

@Mrs 300 – I would love to believe that after a few days of ignoring she would start wondering. I don't think shes that type.. She has a very different thought process about everything. I've never met a girl who thinks the way she does. I don't think she will go nuts.

But yes, I am going to focus all my energy on FAR! I did realize that as the days go by I am spending a lot more time on FAR, and a lot less wondering about her. I mean Im not going to lie, im still pretty sad.. you know, we had a lot of memories together.. we did everything together.. traveling, beaches, halloween stuff, church. Its just unfortunate that life has its ups and downs. But thank you very much for your advice! Greatly appreciated!!

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