[futuremdcpa]

After 2 long years.. she has broken up with me saying she’s unsure if she wants anything more serious with me (as in marriage), and that we argue a bit too much (which she has admitted its both of our faults). This couldn’t come at a worse time… I can’t concentrate on FAR. All I did today was watch a 3 hr lecture. Thats it. We are both accounting grads, and going for the CPA. She started work already a month ago (thats when our problems started). She would be at the metro around 10pm, and I would pick her up and take her home, where I would hang out with her and her family for an hour or so. She would be so exhausted that we would spend very little time together (which I am okay with). But she would snap at any little thing…

We went through everything together.. junior/senior year together, graduation, interviews, and a study abroad trip. life sucks. Thought I was going to marry this girl.. I guess not.

sorry for the off topic, just needed somewhere to vent.

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[futuremdcpa]

double post.

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[Anonymous]

Hey FutureMD…..

Not only was I laid off on vacation last year, it happened again in 2002. The layoff in 2002 led me to the job I was laid off from in 2011 and ultimately to this job, which will allow me to get my CPA. I couldn't have obtained my CPA at either of those two companies. So I ended up back at the company I should have never left to begin with. I only left the company I work for now for fear of getting laid off during a merger and acquisition–only to leave and have two companies get bought out (and laid off).

The funny backstory is that both times it happened while on vacation in the Destin, FL. The last time we went there was 2002 and I decided to go back in 2011 and break the ‘curse' because as we all know lightning never strikes twice. Went there nine years apart and both times was laid off but as I say, it was all part of a course. Strangely enough a course I could have never steered myself because I believed it impossible. But not to worry, I just got back again from Destin and didn't get laid off so maybe it's a city of refuge again for the mind, body and soul.

I have an attitude about these things. Learn to embrace the unexpected changes and instead of fretting….start looking around to see what opportunities show up that you couldn't see before. Sometimes you can still be amazed in life.

[Anonymous]

damnn…

[futuremdcpa]

@CPATerminator – Damn indeed..

@CPApending – Wow that is one hell of a curse. At least it is broken! I see the point you try and make with everything happens for a reason, and gets better in time. It would be easier for me if I lost a job, rather then lose my gf (who I really thought was the one). You have a pretty good story, and I am glad it turned out great for you!! Yeah I am only 24.. however, I did want to get married at a younger age then most, and start a family. I just hate going through the whole phase of meeting someone again, getting to know her parents, getting to know the girl.. this whole process took me 2 years with this year.. and I thought I knew everything there was about her, and that we were perfect.. But as you can see I was wrong. I just don't think I will really meet anyone I click with quiet like I did with her. I know this sounds pretty pathetic… but this is how I feel at the moment. I can't believe after how I used to be .. and whore around the town.. I fell for this girl very hard. Only to be told “i love you, and i miss you but I don't want to be in a relationship right now.” .. what a biotch life is… Hopefully sometime soon I will meet a girl who makes me forget this one… and who truly wants to be with me through thick and thin.

P.S. FAR SUCKS!

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[Anonymous]

Dude if we were in a room, I'd slap you across the face with a white glove, shake you and tell you to snap out of it.

Whether it's jobs or women one fact remains constant. You can get rid of one and the problems that come along with it only to find another that has a different set of problems.

I was 100% working from home with a great salary in June of 2011. Couldn't envision another job…..then came the call. My first thought was that I'd never be able to replace the salary or the job. Now I have a better job, making more money, a great boss and I work from home some as well. I couldn't see it even as a possibility. Just because you can't envision another girl like this one, believe me she's out there.

Remember the lessons she taught you and don't go back to your old ways. Something great's out there….maybe you'll find Mrs. Right at your CPA celebration. 😀

[stefiva3]

You will meet that girl who you are meant to be with. Just don't think about love relationship right now and focus on your exam. You are so close to finishing the exam, and you will not want to restudy FAR. I think it's okay to take a short break; but as soon as you know you feel better, you should get back to studying.

I see myself in you reading your posts. I am the same way, hate changes, hate starting the whole ‘meeting and getting to know each other' process, worry about not finding another one who clicks, etc. But love comes when you are least expecting it and I truly believe that. Do what you enjoy doing and try not to think about when you will meet your next girl. I know it just sucks going thru break-up but the more important thing for us right now is passing the CPA exam. Cheer up 🙂

[futuremdcpa]

@CPApending – Your posts really make me laugh.. Thank you for that I really needed it. I guess you are completely right. Just because I can't envision it at this point in time, does not mean shes not out there.. If you were to ask me 4 years ago If I was to go to a good business school and graduate with a BS in accounting & land a job, AND pass 2 of the exams so far.. I would of said BS! I guess you are correct. As long as you don't slap me with the white glove we are good!

@stefiva3 – I am being so slow on FAR.. I keep refreshing this page. This is the only thing helping me move on.. and study FAR little by little. Yesterday I coulnd't even open my book.. Today I am reading, and almost done with F2 reading. Granted I am 2 days behind.. I needed a little break. I agree.. Love does come when I least expect it. I usually date the outgoing, too social, loud mouth tan, black hair girls.. and her.. she was just a simple white country girl.. who is so innocent. I never loved the others, but I loved her.. I knew it when I saw her I would feel like that. You are def. right.. I need to focus on finishing the CPA.. Esp. When I passed 2 parts already.. and take FAR in 1 month…

Thank you all for everything.. truly are the only ones keeping me sane and able to study.. I can tell that time will heal all wounds. Where is that time machine!?

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[yellowboy817]

Hang in there buddy

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Focus all that enegry on the CPA exam .. Love is something we will never understand,…

Remember things happen for a reason……

[Anonymous]

I'm showing a little more wear on my tires so to speak….I vaguely remember 24. I'm well past the point of letting a woman ruin my day, I prefer to let one ruin my life! 😀 Bah bump bump.

At 24, you are so green you don't even know what you don't know.

Believe me, good things lie ahead. Finish up this exam and then the CPA groupies will come running so I am told. I'm going to be pretty peeved if I end up like the the islamic martrys and I end up without my virgins! 😀

All said tongue in cheek…..CPA groups haven't been virgins for years! 😀 Bah bump bump I'll be here all week, try the Lasagna!

Oh and by the way, you've already met your new girlfriend. Her name is FAR. She's ugly, huge, very shallow, self-centered, and all encompassing. She will take every bit of free time, money and peace that you have. You go into the relationship with high hopes and like most come out a shell of a human being, just hoping to make it past the relationship and onto the next.

[Anonymous]

@CPApending…bs…I tell every girl I meet that I'm an unofficial CPA and they're not impressed at all. They say they'd rather date a guy with a theology degree….;(

[futuremdcpa]

@yellowboy817 – Thank you.. I sure as hell have no clue about love.. it is a crazy thing for sure. I firmly believe that everything happens for a reason. I just have to keep plowing through my FAR book, and continue telling myself that everything does happen for a reason. Thank you!!

@CPAPending – I am trying hard to finish studying for FAR.. With my crappy performance with AUD (Only studied 2.5 weeks because of pushing back BEC) I don't want to have to retake AUD & FAR.. I'd prefer just one! Hopefully I will be done within a year!!! Yeah.. I totally agree FAR is one fat and ugly mofo! I am doing better today then the last 2 days.. everyday that passes by I seem to get stronger and stronger again.. Its unfortunate that time heals all wounds.. Onto that fat b**** called FAR.

@CPATerminator – Haha I honestly don't think if I tell a girl whose not in accounting would actually even know what a CPA is.. She might understand once she sees the good amount of money I will be making.. but thats about it hahah.

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[Anonymous]

@CPATERMINATOR I hope that's not true, I'm done as soon as this CPA is done. It's CPE for me from here on out! No theology degree in my future.

All kidding aside, I was watching some mindless entertainment show at an auto parts store and some actress was talking about her new beau being a nobody (aka not well known, and not a star). She took offense and said “we'll I mean he's not a CPA or something like that”.

That's when I knew the groupie rumors might not be all it's cracked up to be! 😀

Maybe because you are a pending CPA they aren't exactly getting fired up. Kind of like Goose not getting the ladies because he's Maverick's REO.

[futuremdcpa]

What a waste… Took me a whole day to read F2.. and im not even done yet.. 10 pages left. I guess its a positive that I could at least read today.. almost 40ish pages today. Yesterday and the day before I couldn't even read a word… I guess that is a good sign.

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[stefiva3]

Will a guy be impressed if I tell him I am a pending CPA? LOL

Don't worry, futuremdcpa, I am sure you will pass AUD! And on the day you get your result, you will be like “life is gooooooood! and screw whatever happened earlier!” At least that's how I felt when I saw my passing FAR score 🙂

and I agreed with Yellowboy, things always happen for a reason. One time something did not happen the way I wanted it to be and I was pretty upset about it at that moment. But looking back, I realize it is definitely better for me today for things to happen that way…

[futuremdcpa]

@stefiva3 – I agree a passing score would make me feel better.. But sad part is we both left our small circle of friends to spend the majority of our time together.. we went through so much.. In 2 years me and her went through SOOOO much.. We experienced so much together. I regret her starting her new job. I knew it. I knew it would be like this.. She cant handle the relationship and working 6-7 days a week 8:30am to 10pm every night and expect to have a relationship.. It just sucks. I feel pretty alone to be honest.. She was my best friend.. and I was hers.. now look where that got us…

Oh and if he is maybe an accounting major he might just be very impressed.. I know I would be. If I didn't major in accounting.. id be like what is a cpa? is it like a disease? LOL!!!

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