3 months in and I want out!

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    Tono23
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    Hello all,

    I have been employed with a small govt entity for about 3 months. The work I am doing is challenging because I have never prepared year-end audit schedules, but I am proficient with to other functions i.e., bank recs, analysis, etc.

    That said, my manager has a nasty attitude when I submit something because I believe it is complete, and she tends to find defects in a workpaper, that I did not know about until it was brought to my attention. Miss Controller, is very condescending and is always on a 10 when an issue comes up; with me or other office staff. I cannot seem to do anything right by her. I do not know if this woman has personal issues and takes it out on her staff, but she can be very unprofessional and swears. She nitpicks every single thing; I am just waiting for her to even question how I breathe.

    I have been encouraged to ask questions, but I have reached a point where I am hesitant because I do not want to be berated with questions about…”what’s wrong with this work paper? Why does it not tie? Why did the govt receive double payments? What are these properties still in CIP? In a condescending tone.

    I cannot know what I do not know. I reach out to other within the org, but they too are clueless about what is going on, and it’s their job to know what project(S) is done or ongoing.

    I feel stressed, incompetent, and worthless. It was not my fault that I was not developed in the earlier years of my career by my previous employers. This new job is making me regret studying accounting.

    Any tips or advice to deal with this work environment? Again, I am only 3 months in.

    Thank you!

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  • #1828507
    Anonymous
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    Get out! Find some thing else. People like her are miserable and you will be miserable too if you continue to let her walk all over you

    #1828517
    Adam
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    Get used to it..lots of places are like this.

    Accounting is full of sociopaths..

    #1828541
    brainfried75
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    Thought I would offer my two cents. Three months doesn't look good on your resume. Understandably, you have a bad boss and who your manager is basically will affect your well being and future at work. I would say wait until the 6 months mark at least. Three months seems like you didn't give it an honest try from an outsider's perspective. Also, despite how condescending she is, don't bow down. Keep doing you. Sounds like you're doing the best you can. If you are planning to leave, take it as a lesson to ask about management styles in your next interview. Additionally, try to avoid quitting without another job in hand. You will not have as much leverage. She sounds like a true snake.

    #1828615
    Nate
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    I first want to say I'm very sorry you're in the situation you are in, that is a very rough one and you must feel like you're between a rock and a hard place. If you leave, like someone else said, potential employers could judge you without knowing you're story and make a wrong judgement against you, which isn't fair at all. However if you stay, you subject yourself to a horrible boss. Unfortunately the Horrible Bosses movies are far more accurate than they should be, but somehow in this country, (and not to judge a generation, but it started with Baby Boomers), it became acceptable to treat people horrible and with such great disrespect, and that you can fire people or put them in horrible situations, but somehow bosses shouldn't feel guilty because “It's business, it's not personal”, which is a big fat lie. The last firm I worked at was terrible, managers were rude, and not just to me but to my sweet wife. There was one guy, who wasn't my superior, though I'm confident he convinced the partner to fire me, that truly bullied me. He would yell at me for now knowing things I never learned before, call me names like idiot, dumb, stupid, retard, and would review me work and as he looked at it would just shake his head and repeat “so f*cking stupid, so f*cking stupid, seriously, you're so f*cking stupid.” Somehow, the higher ups adored this guy, always spoke so highly of him, and I'm guessing it's because he was an expert at kissing butt, something I don't do, and those managers and partners just ate it up with a giant spoon. There was one moment where this guy literally told me he could steal my wife from me if he wanted to, but he didn't want to cause she's not hot enough for him, which was ludicrous cause he's a fat bald guy, and my wife, well, let me just say I constantly am asked how I landed a blond hair blue eyed beauty like her. I guess I'm saying this to let you know I truly empathize with you, it sucks you're in this situation. I was wrongly and suddenly fired at the last firm with no warning, and I felt devastated, but now I work at an amazing firm with three partners that couldn't be better bosses and I truly wish everyone worked for them. I say this, because I truly believe if you stay true to yourself, operate with morals and integrity, no matter what you do, it will work out in the end. You truly don't have to be subject to such horrible people like your boss, and yes, there will probably be other horrible people that will wrongly judge you for leaving so quickly, but my bosses, they wouldn't make a judgement like that without first talking to you and hearing your side. I want you to know there are great bosses out there and it sounds like you deserve one, you deserve an awesome working environment, so go find one! I believe you will find an amazing place to work! God bless you and good luck!

    #1828660
    Anonymous
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    @Nate that sounds brutal man, sorry you had to go through that experience. I have worked under some extremely terrible people in the corporate world. Corporations are a great place for some seriously sick people to hide and actually thrive in unfortunately. OP, I retract my statement. You probably want to stick it out a while longer (a year if possible) and then start looking for something new

    #1828690
    Anonymous
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    My advice:
    -Make sure you look at the big picture, which is your life. Do you really want to be waking up for the next 9+ months miserable going into work, just so you can put down one year of continuous work on your resume and not get anything out of the work (well, maybe audit schedules)? I'm a strong believer too many people get caught up on “gaps” in their resumes and not focus on being happy with work. But hey, each their own I suppose. Speaking of resumes…
    -Your resume is a marketing tool, not a historical document. Read into that how you will, but the goal of a resume is to show you're the best candidate for a job. I also had a year gap in my resume and never had an issue with subsequent employers. I came in, proved myself that I'd be the best candidate, and was offered the job accordingly.
    -Employment is a two-way street. It should be beneficial for both parties, which is more than just a paycheck for you.

    All the best.

    #1829011
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    1. Sounds like it's already a lost cause, but whenever I look back on a bad boss or job, I always find there's something I could've handled better. Not f'ing up always helps. 😛

    2. Talk to a lawyer; don't just assume there's nothing you can do. Make the company reconsider the benefits of condoning employee abuse.

    #1829381
    krstnam
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    Tono – that sucks. It seems like a lot of people take joy in “correcting” others. I too work for a government and have this Cruella of a person here, she's higher than me but we report to the same boss. She slams doors, yells, throws pens around, all sorts of childish behavior. I just called her out last week. So far it's not going well. She's managed to turn it into things being my fault because she's frustrated.

    Does your boss have a boss? Maybe you can go to them? If you're like me it sucks if their boss doesn't seem to think the issue needs to be addressed. Going to HR is an option, but you have to remember that HR isn't there to protect your interest, they are there to protect the interests of the organization.

    The other option – are the things you are doing actually incorrect? Is there historical documents you can copy off of?

    I'm sorry things are off to a bad start for you. I hope it gets better 🙂

    #1829392
    Recked
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    If you're in government chances are you have a union rep.
    Use your resources, reach out to people. Start the job hunt now.
    Quitting after 3 months, vs leaving for a better opportunity.

    #1829983
    alloverit
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    The best advice on here is to have another job in hand first. Don't be afraid to go on interviews. Chances are, your boss understands that she has little going for her in attracting top talent and has become miserable as a result.

    We've almost all been there. I got a “promotion” at a government job because another guy was so fed up he couldn't/wouldn't do his job so he took early (forced) retirement.

    Our supervisor was a nut job who got to work every morning at 6am and stayed until 7pm. He had full support of all managers and the comptroller. Most of the accountants had medical issues (great insurance at this job) or were close to retirement so they put up with his psychotic ways. I just said “good morning” and wore a smile until I found something better.

    One more thing, there are ways to explain why you left a job early without bad-mouthing the job. In my case, “I loved the job, but the commute was really rough”…that worked for me and you can probably come up with something similar that applies to your situation.

    Good luck and godspeed.

    #1830079
    PTBP2018
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    Oh man. Been there. While working in my first accounting gig, I had a boss that completely broke my confidence. I lasted a little over 4 months!!! My boss basically called me stupid on a daily basis. He didn't use that specific word, but he found creative ways to get his message across. It was embarrassing. I was always a really hard worker and I always tried very hard to do well. I'm fairly quiet, so my co-workers were shocked that I became my boss's new target. I was 31 at the time, and had been working for half of my life. I never had an experience like this before. He laughed at me when I told him that I wanted to go for my CPA. At the time, it crushed me. It's okay now. Besides, the joke's on him. 🙂

    My boss at my 2nd accounting gig was great. He taught me everything. He constantly said, “Why don't you have any confidence? You're really good at what you do!”. After that, I moved across the country. Starting a new accounting role had never been easier. Once you get the right experience, you are golden.

    The point is – there's going to be bad apples in every field. Just know that you have free will. You can change jobs whenever you want. You're in control. Yea, your resume is important, but start looking now. Don't run away –> into another bad situation. Be prepared to explain why you are leaving, but leave your boss out of it. You don't want to look like a whiner. Be professional. When you interview for a good company, you will know it. For your next company, remember that you are interviewing them too.

    #1830715
    Joetse
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    You should ask her where is the policies and procedures and read it in its entirety. Then, you should have the CFR open and read through it as much as possible, so you know wtf you're doing and what year and audit requirements entail. Know what OMB circular reports are required, they require certain schedules, findings, etc to file. Every requirement and instruction for government entities is in the CFR, so read the code and you should know the audit requirements you have to submit to the government. You should be able to look through last's year's permanent file, or working papers, and just copy and paste it, and update it to the new year's findings, procedures, and documentation. It should be a repeat of the previous year's workpapers. She probably thinks your work product is sloppy or incomplete, which mean's you're missing something..either tick marks or documentation or both. CFR, GAAS, and GAGAS should tell you the requirements, as well as certain compliance books (grey book? Pink book? Brown book? not sure which one it is). There is one specifically for compliance.

    #1831009
    Anonymous
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    It honestly doesn't even matter if her criticism is deserved or not. People like her act with impunity because they (and their victims) ASSUME that they can get away with it, without knowing the law. Even a frivolous claim will cost the company money and make them wonder why this woman is causing lawsuits for them.

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