[Letsdothis]

Ok so I am a stay at home mom and I have an 8 and 1 yr (girls) My 8 yr old is really calm and can watch TV all day and night , will help with the lil one (sometimes) she just recently started school so I have my 1 yr old home all day, her attitude is the opposite from my first born, lets just say she is very active and curious.

How do you mamas study with a little at home? I need a study plan, I used to have alot of help but with family emergencies and all , it’s pretty much just me now, no babysitters.

Advice needed

Thank you so much

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[Anonymous]

I am a father and am on my own with my 4 year old son the majority of the time, so I can relate to your situation. This is my strategy and I am not sure if it will work, but is the only way to squeeze in study time without sacrificing the already limited time I get to spend with my son during the week. My son typically goes to be around 8:30, so I study from 9:00-11:00. I then go to bed and wake up around 5:30 and try to get in at least an hour of studying in the morning before I wake him up and get him ready for day care.

On the weekends I typically do the same routine, but without having to work or drop him off at school. Occasionally, someone will watch him for me, but that is rare. I can not study while he is awake because he is into everything and asks a ton of questions. That can be very distracting.

If I were you I would just try to get your daughter on a steady sleep schedule and study while she is sleeping. Being that you are a stay at home mother, you may be able to squeeze in more hours of study than I am able to. It is tough, but it is temporary. Once you passed then you can resume a normal life and that is what keeps me motivated.

[jaycat97]

Hi fellow mommy

I have a 5-year old son and work a full-time job. However, I am also married so his daddy helps out as much as he can. I agree with djnick that it comes down to a consistent sleep schedule. It's very hard as a parent because we feel guilty about the time we're not spending with them. The one thing we have to constantly remind ourselves is that is temporary. I dream of the day I don't have to study and that has been my motivation to get me through this.

I would recommend writing out a study schedule and stick to it. (even if it is only 2 hours a day) If you're not restricted with deadlines then take your time and don't rush it! I also find this site very helpful because it's nice to know there are others like us out there! 🙂

Wishing you the best!

[StephAV]

I work during the day, but I have a 5 year old (bounces off the walls) and an 18 month old (super sweet, but curious). When I'm with them I generally just expect to only get studying done during nap time or when they are in bed. I can listen to my NINJA audio but I can't really focus, because they need me watching them. Are there any play place type places where you could go with your 1 year old where she could play and you might be able to study?

Aside from that, I'd just try to give the kids 110% and do lots of fun activities that will wear them out then send them to bed early or for the 1 year old a long nap… And make an effort to really focus on studying when you have kid free time. So clean up or whatever when the kids are up and study while they sleep. Good luck!

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[Letsdothis]

Thanks guys for taking the time to respond ..

My daughter is NOT on a sleep schedule which makes it very hard …she falls asleep really late (around 11 pm sometimes later and loves waking up early 7ish) and not to mention she wakes up during the night as well…not a complete “I'm awake and want to play” but she moans and groans and whines throughout the night, which then wakes me up and I have to get up to comfort her , if its just to put her pacifier back in her mouth or tuck her in again .she naps for about an hr during the day (no specific time) ..My husband is gone all day so I get no help during the week. He's just able to help on the weekends when hes around …

It is very hard at time..How do I put my child on a sleep schedule ? shes killing me hahaha

We all have the ability to be whomever we want to be in this life. It's just a matter of DETERMINATION, PERSISTENCE, PATIENCE and the WILL to follow through. Never give up!

[jaycat97]

I like the idea of doing some sort of activity with her during the day to get her tired. If she's anything like my little guy that might be the best approach. My son needs to exert some energy by being active. Sometimes I wish for a quarter of his energy…

The only thing that I can say that has worked for me is just being consistent with the time. Even though there are days he takes longer to fall asleep, his bedtime is the same everyday.

However, I am by no means an expert. I've only been doing this for 5-years and he is our only one! (maybe Jeff has some good tips) ;o)

BTW, I love your quote at the bottom!!!

[Anonymous]

My son had a hard time going on a sleep schedule. He would scream and cry every night. After a couple weeks he settled in the routine and would ask to go to bed on his own. I also made sure he did not take any naps. Trust me your children will cry and carry on like you are doing some type of harm to them, but it is best for you and them. They do adjust to changes, but it does take time. The longer you wait the more diffcult it will be.

As far as wearing them out, my son goes to daycare where they have structured classes in the morning and playtime in the afternoon. Thet do not let him take a nap. I pick him up around 5:30. Most nights we go straight home and eat. Then do some type of physical activity outside, since I live close to many parks. We then go back home and he plays with his toys for a little bit. I give him a bath and he is usually asleep not long after. We usually watch something on TV or I read him a book beforer he goes to bed.

[Anonymous]

Like Steph said above, I try to give my son 110% while we are both awake.

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