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I hope I didn’t commit career suicide here.
I work at a small tax firm, 3 partners, 2 staff + support staff. I am a staff here, and been here for 2 years. Before this I was at another small firm for 5 years. I am not a CPA yet, I was a non-traditional student, I have two kids, and graduated college in my 30s.
In April an outspoken partner who is elderly made a comment to me that pissed me off, and tax season had already been stressful for me. In an emotional evening, I messaged an attorney friend and asked if he needed an accountant. He said he did, actually, and the next day he sent me an offer. I told him actually I needed to finish up tax season through July as I didn’t want to burn bridges, and he agreed to wait.
I’ve had ups and downs since then, but I overall still considered the job offer because it is less hours and closer to my house. So, on Monday I decided to give notice to my current job, even though I’d constantly gone back and forth on this decision. My boss was shocked, but said he understood.
Tuesday he sat me down and said he doesn’t want me to leave, and he is unhappy seeing me go into a job below my abilities. That is something I have had trouble with in this decision, as I feel I will just become a bookkeeper (even though overpaid). My boss is offering me a more flexible schedule, to work at home 2-3x per week, even able to leave half days to pick up my kids and finish at home. He said he doesn’t care as long as work is getting done and I get my billables in. He is offering me a small raise too, and told me there is more of a future here than at my other job. He said he knows things have been overwhelming this year, and threw the other staff under the bus for not getting their work done, and unfortunately that’s why so much pressure has been put on me (I do the bulk of the work right now).
But this other job is closer to home, less stress, more time with kids, more time to study… but again, has its cons which could be big for me.
My current boss also said if I do decide to take the other job, he will allow me to work contract basis here which could help make up for the lost income, but again – potentially I could limit my future with the law firm.
I don’t ever plan to work for a large firm. I don’t ever plan to leave for some lucrative industry job. I just want something comfortable, to support my family – but I do want to grow from where I am at. I do enjoy the work I do in tax. I’m not the best at it, I am growing slowly, but I see myself getting better every year.
I have to make up my mind this weekend on which job I should choose. I am so torn. All of my friends (not accountants) say I should choose to law firm, but they don’t understand accounting.
If this was you, in my situation, which job would you choose?
FYI it did cross my mind that if I choose the counter offer, I could be viewed as not loyal to the firm and a flight risk… But so far I haven’t gotten that vibe. Maybe I am wrong in my assessment, but my boss seems to view everyone as a “tool” I think he would work me no matter what if I was getting stuff done. He also said he really appreciated that I waited and gave him so much notice, so I think in that way I showed some reliability or consideration.
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