Mid life career change – advice? (especially from those who have been here) - Page 2

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  • #184173
    CarrieM
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    Hi:

    You might want to grab your coffee, this could be a long one.

    I currently work as an administrative assistant in a Fortune 50 company. I’m also 45. I’ve been here for 7 years and am the sole support for my two children (single mom). I have also been going to school full-time for the last four years, first to get my BA in accounting and this year my MSA. I have two classes left and will graduate in May of 2014. I plan to celebrate for all of about 5 minutes and begin the deep, all-consuming dive into CPA prep. I submitted my transcripts (and hunk of cash) to the IL Board of Examiners two days ago in order to get the ball rolling – my plan is to sit for FAR in August.

    I was hopeful that I would finally be promoted at my company but the writing on the wall here is that it is unlikely to happen. I believe this to be a perfect storm of business conditions (which are awful – we had 4 weeks of rolling layoffs here last year plus we lost 12 employees in permanent layoff and we are an engineering group in my division), cost cutting and sadly and most unfortunate for me, the inability for my company to recognize that an administrative assistant, can and does possess a brain and can aspire to do and be qualified for more. I knew going into this that the jump from admin to not-an-admin was going to be a huge leap over a deep crevasse. I had hoped that graduating magna cum laude with my bachelors would have at least made some impression.

    Anyway, I cannot go the typical route of internships and such to obtain my experience because my children have gotten used to frivolities like indoor plumbing, heat and groceries. 🙂 This combined with the fact that my current position does provide me with good benefits (just not very good pay) and well… I need to find something better, but I’m a little limited.

    I have worked for some big companies in the past. And if my current company would put me in an accounting position for a year, I know this would fling open doors for me as far as corporate accounting is concerned. Eventually things will probably turn around and opportunities may open up. But I am unwilling to wait – and feedback from coworkers, one in particular yesterday, is too much to ignore.

    My company offers a tuition reimbursement benefit but it was shut down last summer for my division, right as I was beginning grad school. I was told “why don’t you wait a year?” but honestly, as a mom and a 45 year old, this didn’t feel right to me. Taking “time off” is a foreign concept to me because as a person who works full time and a mom, you just don’t get “time off”. I haven’t had a vacation in seven years. All my days off have been either for things for my kids or because I had a midterm or final that night and I planned to get some extra studying in. So I bit the financial bullet and stepped into even more debt, because I strongly feel this degree will pay off in the end.

    Now as I prepare to graduate and begin my CPA prep (another thing my company *would* pay for if I was working in the accounting department) I’m again being told “why don’t you wait until you have a job in accounting, then we will pay for it”. But again, this seems pretty stupid to me – I constantly go to the manager of the accounting department for my group – a group which used to have 6 employees and is now down to two because of cuts and attrition – and I volunteer to take on “whatever work you need me to do”. I am very good at what I do as an admin and if there is a way to do it faster and with less effort, I find it. I work smarter – and harder if need be – but mostly smarter and I have learned through many years of experience how to get things done quickly and efficiently. This allows me the time (with the blessing of my boss, btw) to pursue additional work in our accounting group. I have presented this as :think of me as an intern that doesn’t add to your headcount.” And… they give me nothing but empty promises.

    So— and thanks for sticking with me—- how do I get some accounting experience? I have 20 years of solid work experience, including running my own small business when my children were very small. I have seven years with one company – but no promotions, unfortunately, because there is nowhere for me to go in this position.

    How did you make your big leap? How do I get companies to see me for who I am – a woman who decided “I can do more” and then went out and did it.

    FAR: 5/12/16... and if I don't die from an anxiety attack...
    AUD: 7/8/16
    REG: 8/25/16
    BEC: 11/3/16

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  • #523712
    Gatorbates
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    TeeTee … here in Lake Mary. I think you mentioned you were in Orlando before. Anyway, take a look through these, we're definitely hiring.

    Jeff, if this is against the rules, please delete and ban me for 25 minutes 🙂

    https://www.verizon.com/jobs/verizon/search-jobs/Lake%20Mary-jobs-2?refineSearchViewAll=Y

    Licensed Florida CPA:
    B: 71, 73, 79
    A: 83
    R: 78 (expired), 77
    F: 74, 74, 80

    It's finally freaking over.

    #523714

    Gatorbates, I interviewed with 4 or 5 people I think and came in for a second interview with 1 so either the second interview didn't go well or they didn't think I would have my CPA exams passed…I had only 2 passed when I interviewed……I don't want to seem desperate or anything, do you think I should send an email when I pass the last one and see what happens or just move on??

    Florida:
    AUD: 73, 81! Thank you Lord!
    BEC: 73, 77! Thank you Lord! and WTB
    REG: 71, 82! Thank you Lord! and A71
    FAR: 72, 78! Thank you God and my Mommy in Heaven!

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    #523674

    Gatorbates, I interviewed with 4 or 5 people I think and came in for a second interview with 1 so either the second interview didn't go well or they didn't think I would have my CPA exams passed…I had only 2 passed when I interviewed……I don't want to seem desperate or anything, do you think I should send an email when I pass the last one and see what happens or just move on??

    Florida:
    AUD: 73, 81! Thank you Lord!
    BEC: 73, 77! Thank you Lord! and WTB
    REG: 71, 82! Thank you Lord! and A71
    FAR: 72, 78! Thank you God and my Mommy in Heaven!

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    #523716
    Gatorbates
    Participant

    How long ago was your second interview?

    Licensed Florida CPA:
    B: 71, 73, 79
    A: 83
    R: 78 (expired), 77
    F: 74, 74, 80

    It's finally freaking over.

    #523676
    Gatorbates
    Participant

    How long ago was your second interview?

    Licensed Florida CPA:
    B: 71, 73, 79
    A: 83
    R: 78 (expired), 77
    F: 74, 74, 80

    It's finally freaking over.

    #523719

    Beginning of October…I thought one of the Directors was really interested cause he had his Manager interview me two days later so not sure why they didn't choose me…they also had me interview with additional people during my first interview so more people could meet me…I assumed it was because they found more candidates with their CPAs…

    Florida:
    AUD: 73, 81! Thank you Lord!
    BEC: 73, 77! Thank you Lord! and WTB
    REG: 71, 82! Thank you Lord! and A71
    FAR: 72, 78! Thank you God and my Mommy in Heaven!

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    #523678

    Beginning of October…I thought one of the Directors was really interested cause he had his Manager interview me two days later so not sure why they didn't choose me…they also had me interview with additional people during my first interview so more people could meet me…I assumed it was because they found more candidates with their CPAs…

    Florida:
    AUD: 73, 81! Thank you Lord!
    BEC: 73, 77! Thank you Lord! and WTB
    REG: 71, 82! Thank you Lord! and A71
    FAR: 72, 78! Thank you God and my Mommy in Heaven!

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    #523720

    back to the drawing board…can't wait for FRIDAY…

    Florida:
    AUD: 73, 81! Thank you Lord!
    BEC: 73, 77! Thank you Lord! and WTB
    REG: 71, 82! Thank you Lord! and A71
    FAR: 72, 78! Thank you God and my Mommy in Heaven!

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    #523680

    back to the drawing board…can't wait for FRIDAY…

    Florida:
    AUD: 73, 81! Thank you Lord!
    BEC: 73, 77! Thank you Lord! and WTB
    REG: 71, 82! Thank you Lord! and A71
    FAR: 72, 78! Thank you God and my Mommy in Heaven!

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    #523722
    Gatorbates
    Participant

    I'm not sure what happened in your particular situation … the entire process took a while for me, but I did follow up every 4 weeks or so, and each follow up was encouraging. I don't think it would hurt to send a follow up to the manager/director (if you remember their names) and inquire, and ask if you weren't the right fit, if it would be ok to re-apply for a different role in a different department.

    Licensed Florida CPA:
    B: 71, 73, 79
    A: 83
    R: 78 (expired), 77
    F: 74, 74, 80

    It's finally freaking over.

    #523682
    Gatorbates
    Participant

    I'm not sure what happened in your particular situation … the entire process took a while for me, but I did follow up every 4 weeks or so, and each follow up was encouraging. I don't think it would hurt to send a follow up to the manager/director (if you remember their names) and inquire, and ask if you weren't the right fit, if it would be ok to re-apply for a different role in a different department.

    Licensed Florida CPA:
    B: 71, 73, 79
    A: 83
    R: 78 (expired), 77
    F: 74, 74, 80

    It's finally freaking over.

    #523726

    Yes, maybe I will try and email the Director that I think liked me. He responded to my thank you email so I would feel ok with approaching him once I have the exams completed. I have never done this so I don't know if it's the right thing to do though…I will think it over I guess…

    Florida:
    AUD: 73, 81! Thank you Lord!
    BEC: 73, 77! Thank you Lord! and WTB
    REG: 71, 82! Thank you Lord! and A71
    FAR: 72, 78! Thank you God and my Mommy in Heaven!

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    #523685

    Yes, maybe I will try and email the Director that I think liked me. He responded to my thank you email so I would feel ok with approaching him once I have the exams completed. I have never done this so I don't know if it's the right thing to do though…I will think it over I guess…

    Florida:
    AUD: 73, 81! Thank you Lord!
    BEC: 73, 77! Thank you Lord! and WTB
    REG: 71, 82! Thank you Lord! and A71
    FAR: 72, 78! Thank you God and my Mommy in Heaven!

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    #523728
    Gatorbates
    Participant

    K. Let me know how it goes. In the meantime …. GOOD LUCK ON FRIDAY!!!! 🙂 🙂

    Licensed Florida CPA:
    B: 71, 73, 79
    A: 83
    R: 78 (expired), 77
    F: 74, 74, 80

    It's finally freaking over.

    #523687
    Gatorbates
    Participant

    K. Let me know how it goes. In the meantime …. GOOD LUCK ON FRIDAY!!!! 🙂 🙂

    Licensed Florida CPA:
    B: 71, 73, 79
    A: 83
    R: 78 (expired), 77
    F: 74, 74, 80

    It's finally freaking over.

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