I grew up everywhere. I've lived in 11 states for at least a month(8 for at least a year). I've never lived anywhere for more than 3 years(outside of my home state). I get sort of restless when I'm somewhere for very long, these days(one major reason I want to do Audit and Consulting).
The only region I'm pretty unfamiliar with, is most of the Northeast. I've basically only driven through places like Mass, Con, NH, etc.
I've lived in Missouri, Indiana, Ohio, and my family is from Illinois. I like the midwest and am most familiar with it. I've lived in Arizona and generally like what I've been exposed to in Colorado and Utah.
I would be converting to LDS if I moved to Utah.
I don't like small towns(<10,000) population. Drives me nuts.
On the flip side, I don't like BIG cities for the most part. Chicago, Indianapolis and Salt Lake are the only big ones I feel that I could live in(though I've heard good things about Seattle).
I've enjoyed visiting, but don't feel I fit: NY, Las Vegas, LA, San Diego, Dallas, Austin, Saint Louis, Memphis, Miami.
I hated Detroit, Newark and San Antonio.
I spent about a month in NYC. It was too hectic for me. I had problems sleeping. I got sick twice. The place made me feel bipolar. Some days were awesome. Some days I wanted to stop at 2pm. I'm not made of tough enough stuff to handle it. Especially not with a demanding job on top of it.
I'm just not good looking enough to want to deal with California. I lived there for about six months. Dating there was a nightmare. I've generally been considered nice looking(nothing special) everywhere else I've lived. Pretty much regarded as an ugly, skinny nerd out there. I'm not a fit.
The South? I've lived in Alabama, Tennessee and Georgia.
A big part of it, is the weather. I don't like the humidity in summer. Any time I step foot outside of an air conditioned, climate controlled building from May through September, I immediately feel bad. There are a few places outside of the South with this kind of weather(a lot of Texas), but not much.
There's also a passivity everywhere I've been in the South. Everywhere else I've lived, I can go out regularly with friends and DO things(or at least chill with a few friends and get drunk). Every Southern state I've lived in, everyone just sits around their house(but small house parties are out). The only reason to leave, is to go visit family or shoot something.
If I text someone up North(the term used to describe every non-Confederate state), and suggest doing something, I'd usually get either A) Yes! or B) I'm already doing something. In the South? C)Eh. I think I'm just gonna stay home and watch tv/Facebook.
Every Southern state I've lived in, is just full of the most boring people I've ever met. They have few hobbies or interests, and literally no desire to expand their activities or knowledge. This is at least 4/5 of the people I've met, if not more. And to some extent, it's almost universal(IE, I qualify as an extrovert in the South, but not anywhere else).
The only place I've been to in the South that I really liked, was Savannah Georgia. But how can you not love drunken street parties, a town filled with ghosts and a beach with dolphins?
Pennsylvania reminds me a lot of the South(less the weather), which is why I have it on my “Not gonna happen” list.
And it's not like many Southern cities are making up for it with great job growth. Maybe Atlanta and some of North Carolina.
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